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OLDER TEENS OFFER TIPS
October 3, 2004

Last year, seven teens who were "aging out" of the foster- care system wrote a letter outlining concerns about the system and suggesting ways to make placements easier.

Among those suggestions:

* Keep siblings in touch. "Some of us go months without seeing our brothers and sisters. If a foster home cannot be found to take all siblings, then arrangements should be made for regular visits and not just an hour in the welfare office."

* More contact with caseworkers. "Sometimes it seems the only time we see them is when we get in trouble. Maybe they could set aside a couple of hours a week when we could drop in to see them or call without having to wait days or weeks for an answer."

* "When we graduate from high school, our medical coverage ends. You encourage us to go to college, but we really need that medical coverage to do that.

* Match the foster home to the child. "Sometimes we are asked to change the way we dress, the food we eat, the music we listen to, and the television shows we watch. We want to respect foster parents' homes, but when we were taken in, it became our home as well."

* Be sensitive. "Do not degrade our parents and families in front of us. We are only too aware of the mistakes our parents made."

* Try for permanency. "Often we do not realize anything is wrong until we are told we have to move. Maybe we will be willing to work on issues if we know what these issues are. And please, please do not move us in the middle of a school year."



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