Red tape, long waits fill process By Chris Reissaus, 13"I think being a refugee means coming from another country. You lost your home, you don't have it anymore," said Ajmal Ayubzai, 15, an Afghan refugee. This is the turn Ajmal's life has taken, and it fits the United Nations' criteria for determining refugee status. Since 1951, the U.N. has defined a refugee as: "A person seeking to leave a country based on a well-founded fear of being persecuted fo